Friday, 20 June 2025

Grounded Healing & Integration Series – Chapter 2

 


Releasing Suppressed Emotions

Healing begins when we stop pretending we're okay

Sometimes, we’re not really okay—we’ve just gotten used to saying we are.
We’re not truly calm—we’re just afraid of what might happen if we get angry.
We don’t want to avoid our tears—we just don’t know when it’s finally safe to cry.

Emotions are not the problem—suppressing them is.

I used to be someone who “seemed fine” all the time.
I was good at being understanding, saying “I’m okay,” and pushing through.
Until one day, after a casual gathering, I broke down and cried—hard.
I didn’t even know why. But my body did.
All the sadness and frustration I had stored inside just overflowed.

That moment changed me.
I began to realize: Emotions are not chaos—they’re communication.
They are the compass pointing us back to our inner truth.

Gentle practice: A “Body Scan” for Emotion

Find a quiet moment.
Close your eyes and slowly scan your body from head to toe.
Ask: “What emotions are living here?”
You might notice tightness in your chest, heaviness on your shoulders, a sinking feeling in your stomach.
You don’t need to fix them. Just gently say: “I see you.”

What is seen, begins to move.

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