Why Do I Keep Getting Hurt in the Same
Relationship Patterns? — Understanding the Power of the "Relational
Script"
“Why did I end up with
another controlling partner?”
“Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable people?”
“I changed the person, but the pain feels exactly the same.”
It may not be about
“choosing the wrong person,” but rather, an unconscious relational script
playing out within you.
This script often
stems from your early relationships — especially with your parents or
caregivers. As children, we learned:
- I must give to feel worthy
- Being quiet means I’m good
- Expressing emotions gets me punished
- Love is something I must earn
- Being ignored is normal…
So, without realizing
it, we carry these “rules” into adult relationships, unconsciously recreating
similar dynamics — trying to prove we can get it right “this time,” or finally
“be loved.”
But your soul didn’t
come to replay the same painful story. It came to see the script — and
choose to stop the cycle.
Awareness is the
beginning of healing.
- Every time you realize, “This wasn’t my
fault.”
- Every time you pause and say, “I don’t
have to keep betraying myself.”
- Every time you declare, “I want a
different kind of relationship.”
…you’re rewriting the
script. And your reality will begin to shift accordingly.
You’re not failing
at love. You’re awakening to your power to choose.
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