Friday, 20 June 2025

Grounded Healing & Integration Series – Chapter 9

The Wisdom of the Body: Messages Within Pain

We often see “pain in the body” as an enemy. It troubles us, frustrates us, exhausts us—and sometimes even feels like a prison that limits our freedom to live and create. But what if we look at it differently? What if the body is a loyal messenger, not here to punish us, but to deliver a message we’ve long ignored?

I went through a period when my right shoulder was constantly sore for months. I tried all kinds of treatments—traditional Chinese medicine, massage, even energy healing—but the relief never lasted. One day, I sat quietly and asked myself: “What is this pain trying to tell me?”

The answer slowly surfaced:
“You are carrying responsibilities that don’t belong to you.”

I realized that this pain was my body’s way of saying: you’ve unconsciously taken on too much—for your family, your team, your past self. The burden exceeded what my body could hold. And my body—like a wise friend waking me up—had no choice but to express it through pain.

Since then, I’ve started practicing body awareness. I ask each tight spot:
“Who are you? Where did you come from? What do you want me to know?”

Sometimes the answers come with emotion. Sometimes, a quiet image or a fleeting memory.

Each place that hurts often hides a piece of you that was once neglected.

You don’t need to fix it all at once. Just begin by seeing it.
That’s where healing begins.

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